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13 NovA Thousand Splendid Suns / Khaled Hosseini

Genre: Drama
Main characters: Mariam, Laila
Summary:Mariam has spent the first fifteen years of her life with her mother, in a little shack on a hill. She was the bastard daughter of a rich man, a man who, when Mariam’s mother has died, married her away in Kabul in order to get rid of her and of people’s talking. Mariam’s husband gradually exposes himself as the brute he is, especially on discovering that she cannot bear him children. Laila is a young girl in a once happy family now ruined by war. She is fourteen when her parents are killed in a bombing raid and she’s taken in by Mariam’s husband, Rasheed. Not quite caring what happens to her Laila agrees to become Rasheed’s second wife. Thus begun the slavery of the two women in Rasheed’s house, in a country careless about its womenfolk to say the least. This however was also the beginning of a close friendship.

This is a tale of sheer injustice. I don’t even know where to begin. However, beside the strong feeling that left me with, I have to admit I was a bit disappointed in this book because the two main characters are a bit too… passive. They’ve both been through a lot of hardships and their lives have been so unfair to them (especially with Mariam) but – I don’t know, I kept waiting for them to do something to make their life better (I have no idea what, perhaps flee to Pakistan – easier said than done though, isn’t it?). It’s a story about hopelessness too, about being trapped, about having no one to turn to.

This being said, I seem to have liked Kite Runner more. Sure, Amir was a male and he didn’t have to face the war, his life was way easier there in America – the horrors he met with were no longer his horrors. But he still had his burden to bear and most of all he had choices to make. Our two heroines never actually have choices, never have a word to say in what happens to them. We could say that Kite Runner is about setting wrongs right (“There is a way to be good again”) while this book is about wrongs period. Sure, Laila’s story had a happy ending and I liked the part about rebuilding Kabul but I cannot help wondering how long will it last – old habits die hard and men used to see women as objects will keep doing so.

What I liked most: The way Hosseini knows how to describe the atmosphere of those years filled with the horrors of war. And also the horrors of the way the women were treated in that time in Afghanistan (I really could not believe my eyes, such things happening in the ’90s? Women forbidden to leave their houses without a male presence, forbidden to study, forbidden to be treated in hospitals, forbidden to… everything? I cannot even begin to imagine how hard that might be and I do applaud Hosseini for making these things known – maybe something will change, maybe some of the women in the far-off villages will get some help – do I sound too idealistic? I do realize I am).
As a favorite scene, I liked the thoughts that went through Mariam’s head when she died. Because she’s had such an incredibly hard life and nevertheless she found some reasons to be grateful about :)

What I liked least: The hopelessness. The way the two women were oppressed and no one would do a thing about it. I somehow expected from them to fight more (I do realize how hard it was for them as it was, without further complicating the matters but still…)

Recommend it? Absolutely.

A quote:

She remembered Nana saying once that each snowflake was a sigh heaved by an aggrieved woman somewhere in the world. That all the sighs drifted up the sky, gathered into clouds, then broke into tiny pieces that fell silently on the people below.

As a reminder of how women like us suffer, she’d said. How quietly we endure all that falls upon us.


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19 JunThe Kite Runner / Khaled Hosseini

Genre:Drama, Fiction
Main characters: Amir and Hassan
Summary: The story begins in Afghanistan, about 30 years ago. Amir and Hassan were inseparable, even though in Amir’s eyes Hassan was a servant not a friend. When something really bad happens to Hassan Amir cannot stand the guilt for not intervening and frames Hassan with theft, wanting both him and his father gone. They do go, despite Amir’s father forgiving them and begging them to stay.
Years later the war forces both Amir and his father to flee to America where they start a new life, way humbler than before. Amir gets married, he becomes a writer and years go by rather peacefully. He does think of Hassan and his guilt now and then but is mostly able to ignore it.
Until one day, fifteen years after his marriage, when his father’s best friend calls him to Pakistan, giving him a chance “to be good again”. He goes and he finds out that Hassan had married and had a boy. And that both he and his wife had been executed by the Talibans. He also finds that Hassan was actually his half brother, his father’s son. Urged by his father’s friend, Amir has no other choice than to embark on a quest to find his nephew and bring him to safety.

The characters are very well portrayed, with a lot of depth. Taking for example Amir, we get to see how he struggles, first with the fact that he seems to his father a bad son (because he’s more interested in books and writing rather than some more masculine stuff), and, after what happened to Hassan, with his cowardice. We can see he is not a bad person but he has only made some bad choices, choices he wishes (and in the end manages) to redeem somehow. Hassan is impressive by his unwavering love for Amir, he stands up for himself no matter what and he also takes the blame on himself when he is unjustly framed. After more than 20 years when he gets to write a letter to Amir, his feeling are the very same, loving and forgiving. It sort of takes a very special person to behave like that when only ten years old or less. One of the most interesting characters in the book was Amir’s father, his Baba (Persian word for father). It is the kind of man whose true face is seen in the hour of need. In the beginning, while he was rich, he did help poor people, having even built an orphanage, but one cannot help feeling he is sort of mistreating his son. However when they leave Afghanistan he is the only one in a bus full of people who takes a stand when a Russian soldier wants to rape a woman, even when he’s threatened with being shot. When they reach America he refuses to live on welfare and gets a job at a gas station, working many hours a day. He is the sort of man who fights for what he needs and stands up to his beliefs, and one can only admire him for that. His relationship with his son gets a lot closer than in the old days too. We get a sort of explanation at the end of the book about why he might have been showing his son so little love: because he was a tormented man, having to have two sons under the same roof and being able to openly show his affection only to one of them, the one he considered the weaker between the two.

I really like the way the book ended. Realistically but with a ray of hope. The author could have gone the way of “they lived happily ever after”, but didn’t. He stopped to consider both the cultural shock and the emotional scars a kid can get after going through as many things as Sohrab did, which in my eyes is a good thing that lends authenticity to the book.

The book is very well written. It made me flinch while reading about the horrors in Afghanistan. It sort of makes one see in a different way what they hear in the news about that area. Because even though what reaches us are only numbers (“x people killed in an explosion” and such) they are all people with families and stories just like people from any other part of the world (yes, reason always tells us every person from anywhere is a person like you or me, but actually feeling it is sort of hard when we’re thinking of people that far away and from that different a culture; I don’t know, perhaps it only happens to me). One cannot help feeling sorry for all the destruction that has taken place in Afghanistan and for the so many people (especially children) whose lives have been ruined by the war. It strangely made me think of Gone With the Wind, where after the war the life people knew before was no more, only the ruins of it. We get to see the very same thing here, only this time it is contemporary to us which makes it even more awful.

On the whole, I fully recommend this book. There is more to it than the characters’ story, it’s a chance to find out some things about a different way of living and thinking, granted to make you look at Afghanistan with different eyes.

Some quotes:


“But you want a real show, you should have been with me in Mazar. August 1998, that was.”

“I’m sorry?”

“We left them out for the dogs, you know.”

I saw what he was getting at.

He stood up, paced around the sofa once, twice. Sat down again. He spoke rapidly. “Door to door we went, calling for the men and the boys. We’d shoot them right there in front of their families. Let them see. Let them remember who they were, where they belonged.” He was almost panting now. “Sometimes, we broke down their doors and went inside their homes. And… I’d… I’d sweep the barrel of my machine gun around the room and fire and fire until the smoke blinded me.” He leaned toward me, like a man about to share a great secret. “You don’t know the meaning of the word ‘liberating’ until you’ve done that, stood in a roomful of targets, let the bullets fly, free of guilt and remorse, knowing you are virtuous, good, and decent. Knowing you’re doing God’s work. It’s breathtaking.” He kissed the prayer beads, tilted his head. [...]

I had read about the Hazara massacre in Mazar-i-Sharif in the papers. It had happened just after the Taliban took over Mazar, one of the last cities to fall. [...]

“Door-to-door. We only rested for food and prayer,” the Talib said. He said it fondly, like a man telling of a great party he’d attended. “We left the bodies in the streets, and if their families tried to sneak out to drag them back into their homes, we’d shoot them too. We left them in the streets for days. We left them for the dogs. Dog meat for dogs.” He crushed his cigarette. Rubbed his eyes with tremulous hands.

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I throw my makeshift jai-namaz, my prayer rug, on the floor and I get on my knees, lower my forehead to the ground, my tears soaking through the sheet. I bow to the west. Then I remember I haven’t prayed for over fifteen years. I have long forgotten the words. But it doesn’t matter, I will utter those few words I still remember: La illaha il Allah, Muhammad u rasul ullah. There is no God but Allah and Muhammad is His messenger. I see now that Baba was wrong, there is a God, there always had been. I see Him here, in the eyes of the people in this corridor of desperation. This is the real house of God, this is where those who have lost God will find Him, not the white masjid with its bright diamond lights and towering minarets. There is a God, there has to be, and now I will pray, I will pray that He forgive that I have neglected Him all of these years, forgive that I have betrayed, lied, and sinned with impunity only to turn to Him now in my hour of need, I pray that He is as merciful, benevolent, and gracious as His book says He is. I bow to the west and kiss the ground and promise that I will do zakat, I will do namaz, I will fast during Ramadan and when Ramadan has passed I will go on fasting, I will commit to memory every last word of His holy book, and I will set on a pilgrimage to that sweltering city in the desert and bow before the Ka’bah too. I will do all of this and I will think of Him every day from this day on if He only grants me this one wish: My hands are stained with Hassan’s blood; I pray God doesn’t let them get stained with the blood of his boy too.

The first quote makes me feel really grateful I’m lucky enough to “see” horrors like these only in books…

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